Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Saturday, February 15, 2014

Of Weddings and being a Maid of Honor on Valentines Day 2014: God's faithfulness

Today, we celebrate the wedding of both Froi2x and Geri. Personally, I am just so blessed to see how much God has been faithful in both of your single lives and now as a newly-wed couple. 

Socrates once said, “By all means marry. If you get a good wife, twice blessed you will be. If you get a bad wife, you’ll become a philosopher.” HAHA J Good thing Froi for you, you have found a good wife in Geri. I pray for twice the blessings that only the Lord can provide the two of you and your future family.

Pero that doesn’t mean na si Froi lang ang nakakuha ug good and perfect gift, let’s be fair. To let you in on a little secret, a few years back when Froi2x was not yet in the picture, kani si Geri worried kaayo ko for her.  When we would shop for our Godson’s gift together, I would tell her “Huy Ge, help me out.” She’d say “Uhm ok ra na Res, ikaw ra bahala. Tawagi ra ko pag mubayad na. ” Iya ra ko pasagdaan. Then I seriously told her, “Ge, dili pwede. You need to learn about these things. Unsa ang good bottles and not. Unsa ang BPA-free, etc. You have to know these things.” Geri would say “Parehas kayo ni Karen. She’s telling me to learn how to cook. Para maging blessing daw ako sa mapapangasawa ko. Pero ok lang yan. Wag kayo mag-alala. Bat ba mas nag-aalala kayo kesa sakin?” 

I told her, “Geri, we will not be together forever. What if you have your first baby what would you do? Come here, turuan kita.” Geri’s reply: “Simple. I will call you. Diba Res, what are friends for?”

I am sharing this to let everyone know that even during those times, the Lord has kept Geri at peace and confident. Kaya pala ganon na lang ang confidence niya, it’s because God provided those exact things in Froi. God knew what would be a suitable partner for her someday. Froi who is very detailed, knows what to look for when shopping, and cooks for Geri, indeed you are a good and perfect gift for her too. Kaya Ma, I can breathe na. Knowing that you are in good hands. Plus mahal man ang long distance from Hong Kong so thank God for Froi2x. Froi, akong mama ikaw na bahala a? Love her as Isaac loved Rebekah. Geri, be of comfort and encouragement to Froi your husband. 

They say a wedding is one thing. A marriage is something else entirely. But based on the preparation that the Lord has subjected you both not only for this day but the rest of your days together, I know you guys will be more than okay. I put my confidence, not in the two of you but the God who has brought you together. May you always remember Him who has been so faithful in your lives as singles, as an engaged couple, and your future life together. Know that both of your families, closest friends, as well as your spiritual family from Dumaguete, Cebu, and Hong Kong we all share in your joy today and we will continue to cover you both in prayers. I don't want to leave out Mamang because I know she is rejoicing with us. So happy that we are all here today to celebrate your marriage. 

And as your Maid of Honor, thank you for letting me be a part of this glorious wedding. I now understand why it is such an honor to be one. There is no better place to be this Valentines Day. I love you both.   

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Saturday Thoughts of LOVE Inspired by the Rain and a Song :))

A few hours ago, I had a Cafetography session and just bonding with my sisters and my sister in Christ, Geri.

What started out as a lesson on my sister's new Nikon J1, ended with us spurring each other to move toward the goal and how to continue to wait faithfully on God. For whatever it is, whether it's a new job, financial provision, healing, or a partner. 

We shared how we admired marriages that seemed really good. Not because of the material provision or the good looking couple, or the beauty of their children; but how the most beautiful married couples that we look up to are actually beautiful because they are founded on Christ. We talked about the recent situation of how some marriages, or family lives aren't as cut out as they're exhibited to be on TV, movies, dramas, or even closer to home, FACEBOOK.

We are learning that God is what makes the couples we admire BEAUTIFUL. God makes their marriage WORK. God makes their marriage GROW. God makes their marriage so ENCOURAGING. God makes their marriage FULL OF HOPE. God makes their marriage GLOW.

In these times where families are being attacked, where marriage is being devalued through temporary relationships, infidelity, divorce (which by the way is a bill being talked about to be passed in the Philippines if you've been living under a rock these days.) Well it sometimes becomes quite discouraging for us. 

However, when you understand the heart of Jesus and see the hand of God in the lives, marriages, and families of others; whether they are thriving, working, struggling to make it work, shattered, you come to terms with it and see the eternal aspects of things.

It all boils down to God's LOVE. Understanding how God works. How he makes even the discouraging parts of life BEAUTIFUL IN HIS OWN TIME; well that's where you would be able to draw PEACE, COMFORT, JOY, HOPE. 

God is all knowing, but I look at my God as ALL LOVING. Whatever he does, is all out of His love for me and for the people around me. I can never predict what my future marriage will be like.  I'm not God, obviously. BUT I know that if marriage is in store for me, or even if it is singleness that He gifts me with, it's all going to be a GIFT. It will all be for His glory. In the end, it will go back to Him. Marriage or singleness should be that way right? It's all meant to glorify Him. It all goes back to Him.

I don't know what you guys are going through right now, but I just pray that whatever or wherever God has you right now, you relish it as a gift. Be overwhelmed of His love for you. His love and His faithfulness does not change because of your circumstances or your feelings. I sure can't imagine where I'd be right now if it wasn't for Him. He carries me through. I pray that you know that He's doing the same for you. Have a great weekend guys! :))

These are some of my thoughts. Oh what the rain can do. What a song can inspire. What words God can make come out.





Kari Jobe
What Love Is This

You never change, You are the God You say You are
When I'm afraid You calm and still my beating heart
You stay the same, when hope is just a distant thought
You take my pain
And You lead me to the cross

What love is this, that You gave Your life for me
And made a way for me to know You
And I confess You're always enough for me
You're all I need

I look to You
I see the scars upon Your hands
And hold the truth
That when I can't You always can
I'm standing here beneath the shadow of the cross, I'm overwhelmed that I
Keep finding open arms

What love is this that You gave Your life for me and made a way for me to
Know You
And I confess, You're always enough for me
You're all I need

Jesus in Your suffering, You were reaching; You thought of me
Jesus in Your suffering, You were reaching; You thought of me

What love is this, that You gave Your life for me
And made a way for me to know You
And I confess, You're always enough for me
You're all I need

What love is this, that You gave Your life for me
And made a way for me to know You
And I confess, You're always enough for me
Always enough for me
Always enough for me